Kristin cavallari posingSANTA MONICA, CALIFORNIA: In this image released on June 5, Kristin Cavallari attends the 2022 MTV Movie & TV Awards: UNSCRIPTED at Barker Hangar in Santa Monica, California and broadcast on June 5, 2022. (Photo by Rich Polk/Getty Images for MTV)
A piece of empowering dating advice by reality television star Kristin Cavallari has been slammed online.

The former wife of retired quarterback Jay Cutler struck a nerve when she shared her opinion about how long women should wait to have sex with a guy who they’re dating. She made the comment on her “Let’s Be Honest” podcast and the clip went viral.

A podcast listener asked Cavallari, “How many dates until you sleep with a guy?”

“I’ve been on this thing in the last two years, maybe, of being like, ‘You should make him wait, like, three or four dates,’” the Laguna Beach alum admitted. “I don’t think it f–king matters. It doesn’t f–king matter if you sleep with him on the first date or the 10th date. If there’s chemistry and feelings there, it doesn’t matter.”

She backed up her opinion by adding, “I saw this relationship coach post that 90 percent of couples who are in, like, the best relationships, where they, like, found ‘the one’ all slept together on the first or second date. So I don’t think it matters.”




The comment section was immediately filled by women who did believe it mattered.

Cavallari most recently made headlines after revealing the “hottest” guy she’s ever hooked up with who was former “Bachelorette” star Tyler Cameron. Cavallari didn’t give a clear timeline of when she got together with Cameron.

Cavallari was last romantically linked to comedian Jeff Dye, whom she briefly dated when she split from her ex-husband, Jay Cutler, after seven years of marriage in 2020.

The former NFL quarterback and his ex-wife share three kids: sons Camden, 11, and Jaxon, 9, and daughter Saylor, 8.